Society and Lifestyle

  “What if I did not clear this interview?”,“What if they did not like me back?”,“What if I fail?” There are incessant “what ifs” waiting for you to call them out and build on them. If you are a horror fanatic, you know that saying the name of the demon out loud makes them more active. The same applies to the ‘what ifs’. These are the demons of our lives. Amid these questions, ranting or venting is so easy that we hardly try to figure the answers. The answer to, what if I fail? can easily be deciphered. The problem can be solved by just turning 'what ifs' to 'even ifs'. But all these questions are inducing fear and pulling us back from taking any step forward. Rather than preparing for the upcoming event, we are questioning ourselves again and again. Darius Foroux’s “Win your inner battles” , used a different approach to understand fears. According to the book, when men used to hunt, the fear helped them warn against some grave dangers, for example, being lynched by...

WHAT ARE TWENTIES FOR?  “Your twenties are going to be the prime years of your life.” What does it mean to have “prime years”? Does it mean to suffer for a successful future or to make it a life of a party? Existential crisis is the term which came into existence during 20s. The self critic is so active that you may feel worthless .  Establishing self identity, balancing intimate relationships and forming a career, is a lot on the plate to begin the adult life with and can be a catalyst to drown the mood.                                                                                                         Every chapt...